What is Spiritual Accompaniment?

Spiritual Accompaniment has been part of the Christian tradition since the days of the early Church. It is often called Spiritual Direction, although we prefer the term ‘accompaniment’ because it suggests walking alongside someone in their journey, rather than telling them what to do!

We do, however, refer to the person doing the accompanying as the ‘Director’, and the person being accompanied as the ‘Directee’. 

Spiritual Accompaniment is not about solving problems so much as exploring our relationship with God, through prayer and reflection on our experience of faith and life.

Whilst the focus will be a person’s prayer life, this will be seen in the context of all aspects of their life – although it should be noted that the Director is not there to give advice or tell you what to believe in, but rather to listen attentively and act as a ‘sounding board’ for whatever you bring to the session. 

Spiritual Accompaniment sessions usually take place every couple of months or so, depending on the circumstances of the individuals involved. It is advisable to prepare for a meeting, perhaps by making some notes about things you want share in the session.

How we can help

We can help you find a Spiritual Director, and we can also provide space in which to meet for Spiritual Accompaniment.

Finding a Spiritual Director

There are many ways in which this might happen. For example, one might seek out a Director who is recommended by a friend or ask one’s minister or priest to suggest someone. At St Antony’s we are able to refer someone seeking a Spiritual Director to a suitably qualified and experienced person within a network of Directors with whom we work.

When someone approaches us for help in finding a spiritual director, we ask them to come for an initial half-hour interview. This enables us to understand a little about their faith journey, their prior experience of Spiritual Accompaniment, if applicable, and what they might be looking for. We will then try to refer them to a Director appropriate to their needs. 

All the Spiritual Directors within our network have undergone formal training in this ministry, and will currently be receiving supervision in Spiritual Accompaniment.

Providing a place to meet

We have a number of rooms at St Antony’s which are ideal for one-to-one meetings. If it is decided to use the facilities at St Antony’s the Director will be responsible for booking the room for you to meet.

We do not levy any charges for the provision of Spiritual Accompaniment, as we do not wish anyone to be excluded from this ministry on financial grounds. However, we do welcome donations to support our work, and there are Gift-Aid envelopes and a donation box for this purpose just inside the front door. A useful guide regarding how much to give is to donate whatever you would normally earn for an hour’s work.

Not all meetings take place at St Antony’s, and it is up to the Director and Directee to agree their own arrangements, including whether or not payment is expected.

What We Offer

St Antony’s Priory has a well-established role as a provider of training and ongoing mentoring for Spiritual Directors, as well as administering a referral service for people seeking a Spiritual Director, and providing rooms in which people can meet for Spiritual Direction, often also known as ‘Spiritual Accompaniment’.

Next Steps

If you would like our help in finding a Spiritual Director, or would like to find out more about what spiritual accompaniment might entail, please contact us and a member of our team will follow it up with you.